Change should begin somewhere. And I chose to begin now.
If you ask me what I want to change? I thought what I always wanted is to change my life. Then I found out that there was nothing really wrong about my life. Let me count my blessing- not to brag about: family.
Happy family in my definition is we care about each other. We might be very busy, but we take time to spend time together. We have little argument sometimes, but we talk it over with respect.We depend on one another, that what makes us connected.
I simply love to sit beside Sandy while he is driving. He will let me fall asleep in the car. I will just trust him to choose the route to the destination.
At home, I will let Sandy have his own good time fallen asleep in the couch while watching TV or in the kid's bedroom while the kids are doing their homework. I do little help with the kids study whenever I can.
Family also include my 85 year old dad. I am so proud of having a loving, supporting and tolerant dad like him. He is really inspiring elder generation product who eats right and takes charge of his own life to be happy. He is an independent and humble man ; he rides a bike, takes public transportation, goes shopping in traditional market.
Then I have my job that I like, friend I love to work with, clients who confide in me and my company. I lead a busy life, tight schedule, high expectation from my boss. These things make me feel good.
I still have my homework.
one, is the house separation. Second, the land to turn into investment instead of expenses. Third, Sandy's wishes to continue his studies. Fourth, my own plan to set up my own activities.
aside from that? Just consider not in my priority.
Someone's problem is none of my business. Someone's unfulfilled responsibilities are not my concern.
Focus on important things,
one step at a time.
